Seduction

JB wondered why we women disguise our messages instead of saying things straight to the person. I claimed that the pleasure seeing what the guy misses being thickheaded is bigger than the guy getting your message. Or is it the fear of being rejected? Guys are born to be rejected but for a woman it is a disaster.

There is also another angle; saying things too straight spoils the seduction. Some years ago a friend of my husband’s said to me during a dinner that he would very much like to have sex with me. I was totally shocked, not because he was my husband’s friend, but because he just blew it like “Can you pass me the salt, please.” No flirting, no compliments, nothing but this vulgar line.

I guess the only kind of woman who would have sex after this kind of invitation, is one who gets paid for it. I was definitely too expensive for this guy.